=\ Yo i was doing so good too, I had a girlfriend for a good long while and I was chillen with lots of girls talking flirting being a total Gangsta. Now the last two months i havent gotten any play, the only girl who did all of a sudden got a boyfriend who's like 20, and the other girl i was trying to get with just got with my like... almost best friend nigga. I mean damn what happened, I fell off! I havent even been back to this site in a long time, because i thought i was doing good. Anyone got any words to cheer me up =\ i feel like an emo as ***** like a girl kinda **** writing this ****
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yooo what happened !
- Thread starter Bawb14
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cassanova_Child
Don Juan
man up. you sound like a retarded man-***** (no offence lol, but with the 'nigga', and 'Gangsta' and no punctuation) :yes:
but yeah, everyone goes through slumps. if this is a recent thing, give it some time before you start complaining.
but yeah, everyone goes through slumps. if this is a recent thing, give it some time before you start complaining.
Cassanova_Child
Don Juan
hahaha, i'm sure you're pretty smart dude, most guys on this site are 
. well, 4 months is a long time: have you been doing anything differently in your life? anything happen in your family or stuff that could be affecting your game?
. well, 4 months is a long time: have you been doing anything differently in your life? anything happen in your family or stuff that could be affecting your game?"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
intrextrovert
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Thug life nigga, get over it and go back at it
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)
and guess what im very depressed, was going so well then everything ****ed up! as it does, i'm living my what goes around comes around so only good things can happen now haha,
Anyway just push on, what else can ya do really
learn from your mistakes!!
and guess what im very depressed, was going so well then everything ****ed up! as it does, i'm living my what goes around comes around so only good things can happen now haha,
Anyway just push on, what else can ya do really
learn from your mistakes!!
Cassanova_Child
Don Juan
nah, alcohol doesnt screw your game up; TOO MUCH alcohol screws your game up. This I think is very important, 1 or 2 drinks loosens you up, gets you pumped, and makes you retarded enough to stop giving a rats ****. More than that can mess your game up, because you get to the point wher eyou just do retarded ****.Analyzeit said:
but back on topic, like everyones said, you just gotta keep going and see if things change.
eaglez1177
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Heres some good advice:
Start small and work your way up to bigger things. Cut your losses and forget about all those super hot girls you were chasing. Im guessing your broken up with your gf, so dont worry, the few months after breaking up with a gf ALWAYS SUCK for EVERYONE. What your going through is normal. You just gotta start back at square one with those average looking girls (just so you can get back into the game and get your groove back), and then move up to hotter ones.
I know EXACTLY how you feel right now bro cuz im going through the same down time as you.
Start small and work your way up to bigger things. Cut your losses and forget about all those super hot girls you were chasing. Im guessing your broken up with your gf, so dont worry, the few months after breaking up with a gf ALWAYS SUCK for EVERYONE. What your going through is normal. You just gotta start back at square one with those average looking girls (just so you can get back into the game and get your groove back), and then move up to hotter ones.
I know EXACTLY how you feel right now bro cuz im going through the same down time as you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I strongly disagree.Analyzeit said:
I always get drunk or at least sober at parties, and I find myself to have even better game. A few days ago, I was drunk at a party, made out with 3 girls, gave MY number to about 6 girls and they wanted to take pictures with me. Girls were all over me and I was being introduced to everyone.
Alcohol is awesome. There's a reason it's called the "conversation starter".