"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yooo what happened !

Bawb14

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=\ Yo i was doing so good too, I had a girlfriend for a good long while and I was chillen with lots of girls talking flirting being a total Gangsta. Now the last two months i havent gotten any play, the only girl who did all of a sudden got a boyfriend who's like 20, and the other girl i was trying to get with just got with my like... almost best friend nigga. I mean damn what happened, I fell off! I havent even been back to this site in a long time, because i thought i was doing good. Anyone got any words to cheer me up =\ i feel like an emo as ***** like a girl kinda **** writing this ****
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cassanova_Child

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man up. you sound like a retarded man-***** (no offence lol, but with the 'nigga', and 'Gangsta' and no punctuation) :yes:

but yeah, everyone goes through slumps. if this is a recent thing, give it some time before you start complaining.
 

Bawb14

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sorry man im not retarded im really smart but i dunno i talk online like i talk in life and sh1t... but like i dunno its not even a short time slump its like more than two months really like four!
 

Cassanova_Child

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hahaha, i'm sure you're pretty smart dude, most guys on this site are :). well, 4 months is a long time: have you been doing anything differently in your life? anything happen in your family or stuff that could be affecting your game?
 

Bawb14

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Yo i dont know man im depressed as hell right now all of the girls i liked didnt like me back all my sh1t just fvcked up...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)

and guess what im very depressed, was going so well then everything ****ed up! as it does, i'm living my what goes around comes around so only good things can happen now haha,

Anyway just push on, what else can ya do really

learn from your mistakes!!
 

Cassanova_Child

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Analyzeit said:
Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)

and guess what im very depressed, was going so well then everything ****ed up! as it does, i'm living my what goes around comes around so only good things can happen now haha,

Anyway just push on, what else can ya do really

learn from your mistakes!!
nah, alcohol doesnt screw your game up; TOO MUCH alcohol screws your game up. This I think is very important, 1 or 2 drinks loosens you up, gets you pumped, and makes you retarded enough to stop giving a rats ****. More than that can mess your game up, because you get to the point wher eyou just do retarded ****.

but back on topic, like everyones said, you just gotta keep going and see if things change.
 

eaglez1177

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Heres some good advice:

Start small and work your way up to bigger things. Cut your losses and forget about all those super hot girls you were chasing. Im guessing your broken up with your gf, so dont worry, the few months after breaking up with a gf ALWAYS SUCK for EVERYONE. What your going through is normal. You just gotta start back at square one with those average looking girls (just so you can get back into the game and get your groove back), and then move up to hotter ones.

I know EXACTLY how you feel right now bro cuz im going through the same down time as you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's-Me

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Analyzeit said:
Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)
I strongly disagree.

I always get drunk or at least sober at parties, and I find myself to have even better game. A few days ago, I was drunk at a party, made out with 3 girls, gave MY number to about 6 girls and they wanted to take pictures with me. Girls were all over me and I was being introduced to everyone.

Alcohol is awesome. There's a reason it's called the "conversation starter".
 
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