"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reto

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Any one tried Yoga?

This female friend got me to take a class at the gym and it kicked my @ss. My obliques and shoulders were sore for two days...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Latte

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Yoga has a girly image, but I guarantee you that it'll leave you crying the next morning. It has the added benefit of making you more flexible, which is a big help in lifting, and helps you avoid injury.
 

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I love yoga and meditating. It cleanse not only your mind but your body. I used to smoke until I got to yoga, it eased my want and not only that, I feel like I hate smoking now. Well, I can say "YOGA IS THE CURE EVERYTHING" figuratively speaking. It really helps, try it.

And imo yoga doesn't have a girly image, I personally think more like a manly bodybuilder who needs to shape up his flexibility.
 

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I just recently got back into Mt. Biking and found that I now suck at it. I use to be pretty good. Actaully, I'm just out of practice.

With the Yoga, I figure it will help my coordination, flexibility and balance.

And you are right. My whole body hurt the next day.

Besides, out of the 20+ people in the class, there were only 3 guys! Tons of hotties!

Going again to night...
 
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