"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Ok fellas need some advice here. I've been working this girl for over 2 months and things have been going really well. I have been a challenge, I make sure that I don't call or see her more than once twice a week. I always make sure that we have a good time that we are together, etc... So last week she gives me a lets just be friends speech because she feels like all I want is a fvck buddy. Well, that sort of threw me off guard, sort of had the tables turned on me to some extent. Well, I go ahead and rectify the situation, because honestly I do want more than a "buddy", although I never said anything along the lines of why don't we become exclusive or anything like that. Mostly, all I said was that I saw potential there and it was just that I was extremely busy.

So, after our conversation we go out and have a great time again. Now before she was all into me, after that last night she has been somewhat distant. Starts telling me things like she is going to move to Australia after school, like in 4 months. I'm wondering what is going on here. I figure one of two things, 1 she's lost interest and that's the end of that or two, this is some kind of female test to see where I really stand.

I feel like the tables have turned to some extent and now I may be pursuing her. Big no-no here. I have some other girls on the side to keep me straight but somehow I'm really not feeling like calling them in for support. Although, I probably should. Anyways, long story, give me some insight here. What should I do with this one, next her and call in the secondary? Call in the secondary and see what happens when I don't pay any attention to her?

Thanks in advance,
One confused Homey:confused:
 

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I'm just wondering what is going on its like 'Next' Doesnt exist anymore? I'm a total AFC and I next girls constantly if they give me crap or try to use me to brush up there pathetic little ego's i just laugh and walk away.


You don't need to let the darkness in ... Its already a part of you.
 
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Nexting

If I hadn't invested 2 months of my time in this girl and it was the second time we had hung out I would have nexted her. However, this one is cool for the most part, and her attitude for one week doesn't immediately put her in the next pile. I mean correct me if I wrong, everyone has issues, and sometimes you give a person the benefit of the doubt, at least once. So my question still stands.
 
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Remember man, the reason for females are to have fun, may that be physically or mentally. Don't lose track of that idea. Do whatever feels right to you, only you are gonna make the right choice.

As for "DJing", never have primaries, always have secondaries.

~ivan
 
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Obviously if she is talking 'F' Buddy' status then she is a hor and I see nothing 'special' that you should do to 'win' her over!!

Unless you are thinking of marrriage, who cares if she is moving 1,000 miles away!! Move on !!

You like her more than the other girls - if she is not staying in town for you then why worry - she may be testing you but let her bring up the conversation of whether she should stay!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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F Buddy

Maybe I wasn't clear about that one. She asked me if all she was to me was a F buddy or if I was looking for more. To which I replied that there was potential but that is all.
 
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