"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Starman

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Whats the deal with the language barring from here?

Its not like anyone here is pre-adolescent..

and people make the makeshift fvck to represent the original spelling anyway?

Thats like telling your kid..you can smoke all the pot you want, just dont do it in the house or in front of me..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cesare Cardinali

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Starman,
Don't mess with the moderators. You might get banned from the site.

Cheers,
C
 

Nicholas Hill

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Originally posted by Starman:

Whats the deal with the language barring from here?

Its not like anyone here is pre-adolescent..

and people make the makeshift fvck to represent the original spelling anyway?

Thats like telling your kid..you can smoke all the pot you want, just dont do it in the house or in front of me..
Personally, I don't think adults should ever have a NEED to swear at all. I certainly don't. Just because you're a "grown up adult" doesn't mean you're entitled to "Adultery"! (Poor example there eh?)

Secondly: Some of us use these boards while in work. Lots of workplaces have swear and sex filters. Think about it...
 

Starman

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I understand about the work thing..

arent the filters more about websites than catching "phrases" in a web page?

Im not messing with the Mods..just asking
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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xyzzy

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****, you should ******* post this in the ******* Suggestions and Feedback section, this ***** topic has been brought up before you ***** ****** ****** *******
 

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The Idea that the censorship is too much has been tossed around in the suggestions forum. The suggestions in the suggestion & feedback forum are read by admin and sometimes the admin does reply and give his opinion.

Anyway this topic belongs there.

LOL with Cesare Cardinali.

Moved to Suggestion & feedback forum

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De La Soul

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Actually, before I became a mod, I posted something similar in Suggestions and Feedback.

It doesn't really bother me anymore. It's no big deal. I'm sure Allen realises that most of us are grown men, but that's not the reason why the filter's on.

Allen can give you the details (if he can summon the will-power and patience to explain it again for the umpteenth time).

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I say never be complete. I say stop being perfect. I say let's evolve. Let the chips fall where they may.

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