"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Starman

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Whats the deal with the language barring from here?

Its not like anyone here is pre-adolescent..

and people make the makeshift fvck to represent the original spelling anyway?

Thats like telling your kid..you can smoke all the pot you want, just dont do it in the house or in front of me..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cesare Cardinali

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Starman,
Don't mess with the moderators. You might get banned from the site.

Cheers,
C
 

Nicholas Hill

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Originally posted by Starman:

Whats the deal with the language barring from here?

Its not like anyone here is pre-adolescent..

and people make the makeshift fvck to represent the original spelling anyway?

Thats like telling your kid..you can smoke all the pot you want, just dont do it in the house or in front of me..
Personally, I don't think adults should ever have a NEED to swear at all. I certainly don't. Just because you're a "grown up adult" doesn't mean you're entitled to "Adultery"! (Poor example there eh?)

Secondly: Some of us use these boards while in work. Lots of workplaces have swear and sex filters. Think about it...
 

Starman

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I understand about the work thing..

arent the filters more about websites than catching "phrases" in a web page?

Im not messing with the Mods..just asking
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xyzzy

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****, you should ******* post this in the ******* Suggestions and Feedback section, this ***** topic has been brought up before you ***** ****** ****** *******
 

Paradox

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The Idea that the censorship is too much has been tossed around in the suggestions forum. The suggestions in the suggestion & feedback forum are read by admin and sometimes the admin does reply and give his opinion.

Anyway this topic belongs there.

LOL with Cesare Cardinali.

Moved to Suggestion & feedback forum

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De La Soul

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Actually, before I became a mod, I posted something similar in Suggestions and Feedback.

It doesn't really bother me anymore. It's no big deal. I'm sure Allen realises that most of us are grown men, but that's not the reason why the filter's on.

Allen can give you the details (if he can summon the will-power and patience to explain it again for the umpteenth time).

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I say never be complete. I say stop being perfect. I say let's evolve. Let the chips fall where they may.

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