I remember you posted a picture, you have that square jaw look going on - and above average in terms of looks. If it makes you more comfortable my buddy is 5'6'' he gets a girl whenever he feels like it, but you will still say the same thing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WUTANG IS RIGHT!lildevil said:News flash..:Your attractiveness just gets you to the door but if you dont have anything to back it up...whats the point buddy
Society is always trying to make invisible and problems out of anything...They target a persons weakest points their.... Ego ...its the people who do their own thing and go a diffrent way the ones who succeed...
Don't always believe studes...in order to believe them you have to put a whole range of different variables....loooks,personality,masculinity,status..etc
wow... And you thought I was a trollwutangfinancial said:yeah, I didn't say it was impossible. Just that to say height doesn't matter is ridiculous. It's like saying your LSAT doesn't matter for law school, cuz 1% of people get into top law with low LSATs because of other accomplishments. Should it be the yardstick? Maybe not, but it is.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Oh shut up mate you're 17. Maybe in certain ghetto areas you have to be black and have money, or in certain upper class areas you have to be white to get women, but these are just isolated exceptions.LostAndConfused said:L777, Coming from a black guy....race is actually a huge factor, don't open that can of worms here, just stick to height lol
And ur a faggatronwutangfinancial said:Well, women are soulless creatures that actually only care about self-validation and not any sort of mutually loving relationship.
Haha, funny you should say that man, I live in one of those isolated exceptions (the second one)L777 said:Oh shut up mate you're 17. Maybe in certain ghetto areas you have to be black and have money, or in certain upper class areas you have to be white to get women, but these are just isolated exceptions.
I was at a house party JUST LAST NIGHT and saw about 3 black guys all pulling white girls, and I saw white guys asian girls as well.
You will come to realise one day that what I'm saying about inner game is right. Appearance is largely insignificant....and I use to think like you do, so don't tell me I don't know what I'm on about.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.