"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yet another "what can this mean?" thread

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Ok, today I was sitting on one of the couches at school studying, and this HB9.5 walks by and runs her fingers through my hair as she walks out the door. The wierd thing is, I have never spoken to her, only said "Hi" during first week of bootcamp (see my bootcamp thread). By the time I realized what happened, she was gone. ANy ideas on what she means by this?

Sosuave ladies, your help is appreciated very much, because I have no idea what this could mean...:confused: :confused: :confused:

guys can offer advice too, if they think they know what it means
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nobody here reads the important posts and this is why you will never be successful with women! It is your job to approach the girl and find out! What difference does it make what "we" think it means. You, like most of the posters here let the parade go by!

BTW, she was trying to get your attention! She is either messing with your mind (AKA an attention *****) or she wants you to make a move!


Now smack yourself and never again put yourself in this situation. REGRET IS TERRIBLE!
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
Nobody here reads the important posts and this is why you will never be successful with women! It is your job to approach the girl and find out! What difference does it make what "we" think it means. You, like most of the posters here let the parade go by!

BTW, she was trying to get your attention! She is either messing with your mind (AKA an attention *****) or she wants you to make a move!


Now smack yourself and never again put yourself in this situation. REGRET IS TERRIBLE!
I planned on approaching her tomorrow, just wanted to know what you guys thought was going on, as to not make a complete ass of myself
 

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She's flirting. Girls tend to do that. Instead of sitting on your thoughts, ACT on them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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come on man, puh - leez...i gotta say this is a bit ridiculous. but here's how i see it:

1) will you ever see her again? if not...what the fcuk is the point of analyzing it?

2) if you are going to run into her again...maybe this time you should talk to her.

3) girls are illogical...unless she's stroking your d!ck, it shouldn't mean anything to you, and thinking/overanalyzing it, you'll be wasting your energy and time

4) go do some approaches
 

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If she hadn't rushed out the door, I would done something, but she seemed in a hurry, and by the time I turned around, she was out of sight. I plan on acting on it tomorrow, like I said, I just didnt want to take it the wrong way and make a complete ass of myself
 

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It means she knows you exist!!
She throu ball at you, now you need to throu ball at her. Next time you see her, say, "don't EVER mess with the DUDEE again" in real Pet Detective Stile :D Yea, you know who I'm talking about :D /and if you dont, Ace Ventura)

Sasha:woo:
 
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Originally posted by brenbaus
If she hadn't rushed out the door, I would done something, but she seemed in a hurry, and by the time I turned around, she was out of sight. I plan on acting on it tomorrow, like I said, I just didnt want to take it the wrong way and make a complete ass of myself
ok, well if you talk to her...you should say something like "i don't like people touching my hair like that without my permission..." then get tons of rapport/kino whatever...and at the end be like "if you take me out for dinner, you can touch my hair again" or something along those lines..

good luck
 

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It means go talk to her. What else do you think it could possibly mean?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shes either an AW or she's into you.

I am going to give you a mission brenbaus

Next time your at school when you see her MACK HER PANTS OFF. If she's an AW then just get her to give you head.

Ninja out
 

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I will talk to her tomorrow and let you guys know what went down. If you dont see it in this thread, look in my bootcamp thread
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Shes either an AW or she's into you.

I am going to give you a mission brenbaus

Next time your at school when you see her MACK HER PANTS OFF. If she's an AW then just get her to give you head.

Ninja out
anything for the great Ninja (who now has a g/f)
 

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Originally posted by Sasha
It means she knows you exist!!
She throu ball at you, now you need to throu ball at her. Next time you see her, say, "don't EVER mess with the DUDEE again" in real Pet Detective Stile :D Yea, you know who I'm talking about :D /and if you dont, Ace Ventura)

Sasha:woo:
Jesus, immediately cease posting on this forum. Your sense of humor is as poor as your spelling.
 

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Originally posted by ikkenai
Jesus, immediately cease posting on this forum. Your sense of humor is as poor as your spelling.
ju dissing my gramar ju fck? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Not everybody on this forum if from us or some english speaking country. And my humor rocks!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :D :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Sasha
ju dissing my gramar ju fck? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Not everybody on this forum if from us or some english speaking country. And my humor rocks!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :D :D
hahaha, well to brenbaus, she misses u. awwww. and she likes u and thinks ur cute. awww. good luck on tomorrow.
 

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a girl used to do that to me in highschool like every day. it turns out she wanted to fuxor. that means go fuxor.
 

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here is the verdict.........

are you ready...............

you know you want it...



shes a fvcing attention wh0re, no more talking to this chick for me, although she is hot, not gonna mess wif it
 
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