"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yet another "what can this mean?" thread

brenbaus

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Ok, today I was sitting on one of the couches at school studying, and this HB9.5 walks by and runs her fingers through my hair as she walks out the door. The wierd thing is, I have never spoken to her, only said "Hi" during first week of bootcamp (see my bootcamp thread). By the time I realized what happened, she was gone. ANy ideas on what she means by this?

Sosuave ladies, your help is appreciated very much, because I have no idea what this could mean...:confused: :confused: :confused:

guys can offer advice too, if they think they know what it means
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nobody here reads the important posts and this is why you will never be successful with women! It is your job to approach the girl and find out! What difference does it make what "we" think it means. You, like most of the posters here let the parade go by!

BTW, she was trying to get your attention! She is either messing with your mind (AKA an attention *****) or she wants you to make a move!


Now smack yourself and never again put yourself in this situation. REGRET IS TERRIBLE!
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
Nobody here reads the important posts and this is why you will never be successful with women! It is your job to approach the girl and find out! What difference does it make what "we" think it means. You, like most of the posters here let the parade go by!

BTW, she was trying to get your attention! She is either messing with your mind (AKA an attention *****) or she wants you to make a move!


Now smack yourself and never again put yourself in this situation. REGRET IS TERRIBLE!
I planned on approaching her tomorrow, just wanted to know what you guys thought was going on, as to not make a complete ass of myself
 

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She's flirting. Girls tend to do that. Instead of sitting on your thoughts, ACT on them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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come on man, puh - leez...i gotta say this is a bit ridiculous. but here's how i see it:

1) will you ever see her again? if not...what the fcuk is the point of analyzing it?

2) if you are going to run into her again...maybe this time you should talk to her.

3) girls are illogical...unless she's stroking your d!ck, it shouldn't mean anything to you, and thinking/overanalyzing it, you'll be wasting your energy and time

4) go do some approaches
 

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If she hadn't rushed out the door, I would done something, but she seemed in a hurry, and by the time I turned around, she was out of sight. I plan on acting on it tomorrow, like I said, I just didnt want to take it the wrong way and make a complete ass of myself
 

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It means she knows you exist!!
She throu ball at you, now you need to throu ball at her. Next time you see her, say, "don't EVER mess with the DUDEE again" in real Pet Detective Stile :D Yea, you know who I'm talking about :D /and if you dont, Ace Ventura)

Sasha:woo:
 
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Originally posted by brenbaus
If she hadn't rushed out the door, I would done something, but she seemed in a hurry, and by the time I turned around, she was out of sight. I plan on acting on it tomorrow, like I said, I just didnt want to take it the wrong way and make a complete ass of myself
ok, well if you talk to her...you should say something like "i don't like people touching my hair like that without my permission..." then get tons of rapport/kino whatever...and at the end be like "if you take me out for dinner, you can touch my hair again" or something along those lines..

good luck
 

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It means go talk to her. What else do you think it could possibly mean?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shes either an AW or she's into you.

I am going to give you a mission brenbaus

Next time your at school when you see her MACK HER PANTS OFF. If she's an AW then just get her to give you head.

Ninja out
 

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I will talk to her tomorrow and let you guys know what went down. If you dont see it in this thread, look in my bootcamp thread
 

brenbaus

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Shes either an AW or she's into you.

I am going to give you a mission brenbaus

Next time your at school when you see her MACK HER PANTS OFF. If she's an AW then just get her to give you head.

Ninja out
anything for the great Ninja (who now has a g/f)
 

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Originally posted by Sasha
It means she knows you exist!!
She throu ball at you, now you need to throu ball at her. Next time you see her, say, "don't EVER mess with the DUDEE again" in real Pet Detective Stile :D Yea, you know who I'm talking about :D /and if you dont, Ace Ventura)

Sasha:woo:
Jesus, immediately cease posting on this forum. Your sense of humor is as poor as your spelling.
 

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Originally posted by ikkenai
Jesus, immediately cease posting on this forum. Your sense of humor is as poor as your spelling.
ju dissing my gramar ju fck? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Not everybody on this forum if from us or some english speaking country. And my humor rocks!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :D :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Sasha
ju dissing my gramar ju fck? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Not everybody on this forum if from us or some english speaking country. And my humor rocks!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :D :D
hahaha, well to brenbaus, she misses u. awwww. and she likes u and thinks ur cute. awww. good luck on tomorrow.
 

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a girl used to do that to me in highschool like every day. it turns out she wanted to fuxor. that means go fuxor.
 

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here is the verdict.........

are you ready...............

you know you want it...



shes a fvcing attention wh0re, no more talking to this chick for me, although she is hot, not gonna mess wif it
 
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