I am practing the online game thoery, in truth i get bored with it.
So many mine fields to traverse, the things that hit you on these sites are hard to ignore, that does not mean there is potential to meet a good women or a women to equal what you want, but to get that requires so much effort.
Playing the online game makes me feel tedium, i get bored of it.
All the ego trip girls looking for a boost.
The fake profiles.
The single mothers looking for a new daddie.
The subliminal messages or 'not looking for perverts' when the women in the profiles dont mind showing as* and ti*s.
The constant boring barrage of mind numbing fluff games you feel you need to play.
The not knowing if there pics are legit.
The thought of hooking up with a social stalker or wierdo.
to name but a few.
Makes one wonder why the fuc* i even bother, starting to feel that way and only been testing a new site for a few weeks, dont get me wrong its nice to get attention, but you cant beat meeting girls face to face in the flesh from a real meeting, at least then you dont get 95% of the cra* that perminates online dating.
But still i will persever with it, got a few women that seem ripe for the chance of a hook up, i think i need to at least carry it through just to qualify my suspicions or at least put them to route. I do feel there women that are ok on these sites but getting there requires a beach head type battle that only glorifies the real world face to face meeting.
The real world meeting of girls is still not a perfect system, i wish it was but at least in the face to face scenario you can at least have some eliment of control.
Also i am noticing most hot women on these sites have so much ego choice the level a man as to stoop too to try to get some attention makes the effort a waste, especcially considering in the field it is never THAT hard.
Then again when women contact you on these sites it is a little easier, but one as to wonder how many other guys the women is contacting also.
I have a negative frame for online dating.
Also what that about when women post 'i am in a relationship, i met x on this site' then x posts something similer but the two are still on the dating site, wtf is that about, seen this rather a lot.
Also looking at one profile a girl of 18, about 24 pics, 17 of which are her with a different guy, most kissing them e.t.c and the profile reads 'in a relationship' i suspect on of the chumps to be the BF i feel sorry for the poor smuck, the girl is hot but dam if i would go there, attention whor* screams from the page.
In a relationship but still on a dating site, i mean alot of it is mind games validation.
Also not to mention the biggest aspect.
There are about 4x as many guys as girls on these sites.
Online dating is a good idea but plagued by so many mine fields it as lost its purpose, or at least it seems that way to me.
Shame for a genuine guy who posts honest profiles only to be met with a high % of deceptive and validation cra*.
Last bird i met online had aquired about 12 stone from the pic she took, why could the biatch not be honest at the start?
Not to mention the testimonals from guy with the usual 'wow what a women, e.t.c' whilst having about 4-5 other testimonals from other guys too, why they keep that stuff up i would never know.
Last thing i would do is pm a girl on a dating site with 3-4 guy testimonals about how great she is, yeh she is probably totally awsome, collecting chumps as she goes and they fall over each other for it too, i really would not put myself thorugh that. I have no idea why guys would post how awsome a girl is when it is clear as day the girl is communicating and more with a lot of guys, all well and good but one does not need it to be so in your face, i do wonder what the average male thinks on there i really do, puts me clean off, i dont care how hot she looks.