"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Big Eee Zee

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I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
When your car is broken you take it too the mechanic, when you are sick you go to the docter. For your hair situation I think you should go to a salon and ask what they suggest. Get a couple of opinions, and then go let the best you shine through by getting it done.
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
i'd kill for some waves in my hair..
i've got dead straight dark brown hair..
u could prob grow it mid-length and just let it go, shower, style the damp hair with ur hands, let it dry, then rub a little wax through it to get the exact style u want.. i recomend rockstar wax..
but really, i haven't seen ur hair, it might not do what i mean..
 
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