"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Big Eee Zee

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I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
When your car is broken you take it too the mechanic, when you are sick you go to the docter. For your hair situation I think you should go to a salon and ask what they suggest. Get a couple of opinions, and then go let the best you shine through by getting it done.
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
i'd kill for some waves in my hair..
i've got dead straight dark brown hair..
u could prob grow it mid-length and just let it go, shower, style the damp hair with ur hands, let it dry, then rub a little wax through it to get the exact style u want.. i recomend rockstar wax..
but really, i haven't seen ur hair, it might not do what i mean..
 
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