"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Big Eee Zee

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I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
When your car is broken you take it too the mechanic, when you are sick you go to the docter. For your hair situation I think you should go to a salon and ask what they suggest. Get a couple of opinions, and then go let the best you shine through by getting it done.
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I know there's several posts on hair, but none of them are all that helpful, so im gonna throw out another one, just for the hell of it.

alrighty-heres how it goes:

my hair is rather shiety. Like, seriously. I have never really been happy with how it looked, not once. It is brown and has a little curl to it, sorta wavey. when it's short, you don't notice, but anytime it starts to get a little long wild curls show up here and there. it either sits plastered to my head in wierd contortions, or frizzes up and reinforces the nerd image I am trying so hard to get rid of. What can I do? Is there any hairstyle/product you guys can think of? If nothing hapens soon Im just gonna get it short and forget that it's there.
i'd kill for some waves in my hair..
i've got dead straight dark brown hair..
u could prob grow it mid-length and just let it go, shower, style the damp hair with ur hands, let it dry, then rub a little wax through it to get the exact style u want.. i recomend rockstar wax..
but really, i haven't seen ur hair, it might not do what i mean..
 
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