"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yesterday at the mall

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Dimebag_Darrell

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Yesterday me and my friend went up to the mall and tried to go pick up girls and get numbers. I don't know what it is about the mall that makes it a difficult place for me to run game on girls. One thing that I've noticed though about me is that when I conversate with a female, I always ask questions rather than having some input and I never kino...I don't kino because I've always had that fear of coming across too strong or unwelcome in such an environment as the mall..I need some help on mall approaches.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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small, insignificant kino. my fave is kinda kino. u know, ur walking by and ur hand brushes a girls hand. kinda light, coulda been an accident...but was it? when u already have the girl in conversation, little stuff like touching arm (something i've never mastered lol but i hear other guys pull it well) and stuff like that are good.
 
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You don't have to necessarily use much kino in the very beginning until you start getting some good conversation/flirting going. I wouldn't just go in touching her until she's EARNED it.
 
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