"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yesterday at the mall

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Dimebag_Darrell

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Yesterday me and my friend went up to the mall and tried to go pick up girls and get numbers. I don't know what it is about the mall that makes it a difficult place for me to run game on girls. One thing that I've noticed though about me is that when I conversate with a female, I always ask questions rather than having some input and I never kino...I don't kino because I've always had that fear of coming across too strong or unwelcome in such an environment as the mall..I need some help on mall approaches.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem

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small, insignificant kino. my fave is kinda kino. u know, ur walking by and ur hand brushes a girls hand. kinda light, coulda been an accident...but was it? when u already have the girl in conversation, little stuff like touching arm (something i've never mastered lol but i hear other guys pull it well) and stuff like that are good.
 
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You don't have to necessarily use much kino in the very beginning until you start getting some good conversation/flirting going. I wouldn't just go in touching her until she's EARNED it.
 
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