"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yesterday at the mall

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Yesterday me and my friend went up to the mall and tried to go pick up girls and get numbers. I don't know what it is about the mall that makes it a difficult place for me to run game on girls. One thing that I've noticed though about me is that when I conversate with a female, I always ask questions rather than having some input and I never kino...I don't kino because I've always had that fear of coming across too strong or unwelcome in such an environment as the mall..I need some help on mall approaches.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dannowillbookem

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small, insignificant kino. my fave is kinda kino. u know, ur walking by and ur hand brushes a girls hand. kinda light, coulda been an accident...but was it? when u already have the girl in conversation, little stuff like touching arm (something i've never mastered lol but i hear other guys pull it well) and stuff like that are good.
 

Craig Reeves

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You don't have to necessarily use much kino in the very beginning until you start getting some good conversation/flirting going. I wouldn't just go in touching her until she's EARNED it.
 
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