"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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yes, another looks thread i apologize...

Docs

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i only wanted honest opions from people not harsh criticism and insults.
Harsh criticism IS an honest opinion.

You've completely avoided a single comment.....
*takes whiff of air*

There's something really wrong with this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Geert81

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dude, seriously,

stop trying to get approval, you're way to needy and girls sense that.

Visit some sites made for males like www.doclove.com and get some self-control and self confidence.

You don't look like a doushbag, so don't act like on!

Your insecurities make the girls flee from you, like kids run away from Jackson or la spears.

So get a grip.
 

Holland

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You need to stop seeking validation.
You're a handsome looking guy, but the way you present yourself in those pics is pretty gay, imo.
Get some raw masculine energy going and toughen up :p

And refer to yourself with a capital I, that is the respectful thing to do.

Tip: Stop worrying about looks, they won't get you women. Sexuality is the only way to authentic success with women.
 

Obsidian

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Read the damn Bible, n00b.

Good grief, you're hopeless.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Take it from a female - focus your attention more on the girl and less on yourself. Be yourself, be confident, be casual, but don't have a big ego about it.
 
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