"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yes, another looks thread i apologize...

Docs

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i only wanted honest opions from people not harsh criticism and insults.
Harsh criticism IS an honest opinion.

You've completely avoided a single comment.....
*takes whiff of air*

There's something really wrong with this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Geert81

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dude, seriously,

stop trying to get approval, you're way to needy and girls sense that.

Visit some sites made for males like www.doclove.com and get some self-control and self confidence.

You don't look like a doushbag, so don't act like on!

Your insecurities make the girls flee from you, like kids run away from Jackson or la spears.

So get a grip.
 

Holland

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You need to stop seeking validation.
You're a handsome looking guy, but the way you present yourself in those pics is pretty gay, imo.
Get some raw masculine energy going and toughen up :p

And refer to yourself with a capital I, that is the respectful thing to do.

Tip: Stop worrying about looks, they won't get you women. Sexuality is the only way to authentic success with women.
 

Obsidian

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Read the damn Bible, n00b.

Good grief, you're hopeless.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pinegirl7

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Take it from a female - focus your attention more on the girl and less on yourself. Be yourself, be confident, be casual, but don't have a big ego about it.
 
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