"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes another (give me advice on my pic) thread

ScrewIt

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wow...the first thing i noticed with your 2 pics is how extremely uncomfortable you are in your own skin. You look forced standing the way you are.

Are you breaking out a sweat behind the camera already?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jiza101

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Yer it was really hot when i took it thats why im sweating + i have oily skin. Also i had the camera on 10 sec so its not exactly a natural pose, i had to turn and look at the camera.
 

splinterkb

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I would recommend the messy spike/front flip hair cut. I have mine cut like that, and you wouldnt believe how many women compliemtn on it. Also, you need to update your wardrobe. Get some nice collared shirts, and some nice pants.
 
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