"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes another (give me advice on my pic) thread

ScrewIt

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wow...the first thing i noticed with your 2 pics is how extremely uncomfortable you are in your own skin. You look forced standing the way you are.

Are you breaking out a sweat behind the camera already?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jiza101

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Yer it was really hot when i took it thats why im sweating + i have oily skin. Also i had the camera on 10 sec so its not exactly a natural pose, i had to turn and look at the camera.
 

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I would recommend the messy spike/front flip hair cut. I have mine cut like that, and you wouldnt believe how many women compliemtn on it. Also, you need to update your wardrobe. Get some nice collared shirts, and some nice pants.
 
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