yep, I'm really f'd in the head now

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Santos

Senior Don Juan

Aug 29, 2003

#101

Originally posted by TesuqueRed

Analogy: it's like investors who buy into a stock, watch it drop and refuse to sell because they can't admit taking a loss, so they continue taking a bigger loss as it continues to drop, or they watch it sit at a low level for months and years--essentially freezing the money, refusing to take the loss and get the money into something better.

I like this analogy. Tesuque is like a DJ wiseman or something

. Great advice.

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