"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cinamon said:
I dont think the word very friendzones people.
Oh Cinamon,Cinamon. I never said the word "very" meant that a guy is friendzoned by a girl. I said that that word thrown in with words like "nice" and "sweet" means you're generally "headed" there.


A guy who's "nice" and "sweet" WITHOUT attraction is a prime friendzone candidate.


Trust me,I have a P.H.D. in friendzoneology.


I'd rather a girl be angry with me than tell me I'm nice/sweet.

I'm serious about that too,I'm NOT kidding.



I bet 90% of the guys here can testify to this.




Cinamon said:
The guy i was on a date with last night, who i would say is very nice and very sweet, got more action than someone who had been friendzoned would. Some people just use words such as very alot.




Maybe he did get some action,but it wasn't because he was "nice". It was because you were attracted to him. If you weren't attracted to the guy,you would never have hung him around long enough to find out how "nice" he was.





Being nice or sweet isn't the problem. It's being nice or sweet WITHOUT sexual attraction/chemistry.




The fact that you even bothered to have a date with him in the first place means that there was some attraction there,otherwise you wouldn't have wasted your time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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