"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cinamon said:
I dont think the word very friendzones people.
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Oh Cinamon,Cinamon. I never said the word "very" meant that a guy is friendzoned by a girl. I said that that word thrown in with words like "nice" and "sweet" means you're generally "headed" there.


A guy who's "nice" and "sweet" WITHOUT attraction is a prime friendzone candidate.


Trust me,I have a P.H.D. in friendzoneology.


I'd rather a girl be angry with me than tell me I'm nice/sweet.

I'm serious about that too,I'm NOT kidding.



I bet 90% of the guys here can testify to this.




Cinamon said:
The guy i was on a date with last night, who i would say is very nice and very sweet, got more action than someone who had been friendzoned would. Some people just use words such as very alot.
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Maybe he did get some action,but it wasn't because he was "nice". It was because you were attracted to him. If you weren't attracted to the guy,you would never have hung him around long enough to find out how "nice" he was.





Being nice or sweet isn't the problem. It's being nice or sweet WITHOUT sexual attraction/chemistry.




The fact that you even bothered to have a date with him in the first place means that there was some attraction there,otherwise you wouldn't have wasted your time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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