Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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years are coming off my life

frivolousz21

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by the hour.

my custody hearing is in 27 hours...I have never felt this wound up before.

for all the guys out there that have heart break, are lonly, upset about things related to women.

I wish I could let you feel how I feel right now...

this isnt a sob story...but the amazing stress I have right now is worse than anything I have ever dealt with relating to relationships with women. After this its going to be a while before I can take dating and being emotionally involved serious.

I hope everything goes good tomorrow and I can come back here tomorrow night and be calm...however by then I will be so tired you might not see me until saturday
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good luck to you man.

I know well that feeling of amazing stress that is hard to get rid of.

In my experience exercise as simple as taking a long or short walk has been able to dissipate it some.

Also any other distraction based or energy consuming activities you can do may help.

Gotta lower those cortisol levels bro.
 

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Thanks..I work until 5 pm..I am useless right now at work.

tomorrow I will be 10 times more useless until its over.

I wish it was at 8 am when the court opened and not 1:30!

geez
 

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Be brave! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the unnatural order of things; thus, your unnatural state of mnid and condition!!
 
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