"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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years are coming off my life

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by the hour.

my custody hearing is in 27 hours...I have never felt this wound up before.

for all the guys out there that have heart break, are lonly, upset about things related to women.

I wish I could let you feel how I feel right now...

this isnt a sob story...but the amazing stress I have right now is worse than anything I have ever dealt with relating to relationships with women. After this its going to be a while before I can take dating and being emotionally involved serious.

I hope everything goes good tomorrow and I can come back here tomorrow night and be calm...however by then I will be so tired you might not see me until saturday
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good luck to you man.

I know well that feeling of amazing stress that is hard to get rid of.

In my experience exercise as simple as taking a long or short walk has been able to dissipate it some.

Also any other distraction based or energy consuming activities you can do may help.

Gotta lower those cortisol levels bro.
 
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Thanks..I work until 5 pm..I am useless right now at work.

tomorrow I will be 10 times more useless until its over.

I wish it was at 8 am when the court opened and not 1:30!

geez
 
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Be brave! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is the unnatural order of things; thus, your unnatural state of mnid and condition!!
 
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