"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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years are coming off my life

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by the hour.

my custody hearing is in 27 hours...I have never felt this wound up before.

for all the guys out there that have heart break, are lonly, upset about things related to women.

I wish I could let you feel how I feel right now...

this isnt a sob story...but the amazing stress I have right now is worse than anything I have ever dealt with relating to relationships with women. After this its going to be a while before I can take dating and being emotionally involved serious.

I hope everything goes good tomorrow and I can come back here tomorrow night and be calm...however by then I will be so tired you might not see me until saturday
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good luck to you man.

I know well that feeling of amazing stress that is hard to get rid of.

In my experience exercise as simple as taking a long or short walk has been able to dissipate it some.

Also any other distraction based or energy consuming activities you can do may help.

Gotta lower those cortisol levels bro.
 
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Thanks..I work until 5 pm..I am useless right now at work.

tomorrow I will be 10 times more useless until its over.

I wish it was at 8 am when the court opened and not 1:30!

geez
 
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Be brave! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is the unnatural order of things; thus, your unnatural state of mnid and condition!!
 
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