"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been texting this girl and calling her and we've been hanging out and she likes my company. She is always laughing at the stupid **** I say but I havent made out with her yet.

She has positive feelings about me and so would right now be a good time to sort of back away and let her pursue and then go for the kiss?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She likes you, you like her. So back away.


Wtf? are you dumb? just kiss her now/
 
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go for the kiss; always, always go for the kiss
 
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I'm in the same boat. Girl at school, we talk every once in a while, she laughs at my stupid jokes. We don't see eachother much at school but when we do its not awkward or anything and I'm sure from the signals I'm getting she likes me, atleast as a friend. She's a really great girl, I like her a lot. I just can't tell if she's interested in being more than my friend. I'm not sure I know how to figure that out and if I do decide she's interested, how do I act on that? I know the "bible" probably covers this but I'm new and haven't gotten through it. anyone got some quick adivce?:) I'd like to do something soon to take our relationship to the next step, the next level, before she loses interest but I don't want to seem too eager
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to do you mean just go for the kiss? You'll probably ruin this poor boy. Guys try to plant those things at the wrong moment all the time. Make sure she knows it's coming before you sneak one and she moves out of your longshot. Work ****y/funny and make her wonder about it, if you think a moment comes be ****y about it and say something like "you must really want me bad, heh... Too bad you might just have to put a little effort into it until I think you're worth it."

Unless you think she's THAT kind of girl and sending you THOSE kind of messages. Then just throw her up against the wall, let her stick her tongue down your throat, and do that dirty dirty little bad girl who needs a good spankin.
 
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If shes laughing and sitting real close, then the most likely possibility is that she wants to kiss. You want a sure fire way of finding out if she does want to kiss you in that situation. Lean in and shut your eyes as if your gonna kiss her. Then pull back and open your eyes. If shes shut hers and gone forward and is groping the air for your lips; she wanted a kiss. Simple. Plus it drives them mad if you start to tease them like that :D
 
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