"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Thanks to the wonderful moderators, my account has been reactivated! :D
Anyway onto the point of the thread...
Over the past few days, a few people have told me that I talk WAY too much and my voice sounds gay. What can i do to fix this?
Also, how can I obtain an aura of calmness and cool?
Thanks in advance...Ben
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shouldn't this be obvious? Slow down your speaking and talk deeper. Duh. I mean, come on dude...

Also, those wonderful moderators are the same ones who closed your account in the first place. You don't have to suck up.
 
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Nah, it wasnt closed. I couldnt activate it automatically. anyway.

Slow down speech and talk deeper.
But what about speaking too much? How do I know when I am speaking too much or too little? Should I only speak when spoken to or something?>
 
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BenPW-DJNewbie said:
Nah, it wasnt closed. I couldnt activate it automatically. anyway.
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My mistake then, I guess.

Talking too much? Well if you hear your voice more than anyone else's, then you're probably talking too much. Just relax, there's no reason the person needs to know everything about you right away. Keep some mystery.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My mistake then, I guess.

Talking too much? Well if you hear your voice more than anyone else's, then you're probably talking too much. Just relax, there's no reason the person needs to know everything about you right away. Keep some mystery.
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Nope my fault, for no explaining properly, dont worry about it.
Thanks for your reply. Well, since it's half term here, I have a week to change myself abit. Like my speech and etc. If anyone else has advice, please, feel free to give it to me. Everything helps :up:
 
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If it's what I think it is, talking too much can be a sign of trying to gain someone's approval. Don't try to gain anybody's approval when communicating with someone, just let the convo flow naturally.
Or it could mean that you talk while giving too much info. When talking about anything try leaving behind the irrelevant details.
 
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any other advice? also, any idea where I could find an online voice class or something?
 
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You can't change THAT much in a week, but go get some new cool clothes, get a good haircut, and get started on a workout program if you haven't already.

Remember, you are only 14. You still have a LOT of growing up to do. I am a completely different person now even from when I was 18.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Come on, we all sounded gay at 14.

It's always best if you talk a lot though. Don't listen to the guys that quote robert greene, it's BAD ADVICE. She wants a social guy, not a boring man of few words. The less ya talk, the less she cares. That is unless your going on about boring sh!t noone cares about, stop that. Just try not to sound gay.
 
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Lol. Ok, thanks guys. Well. I've been looking at ALOT of advice on working out. and I'm going to work out from now on. I'm going to try and deepen my voice. Maybe that will help
 
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