"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Y'all just wasting your time

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COme on folks, have you not seen what this site has done to you? I've returned from a 6 month absence and it's still the same. People post and post and read and read. Go read a novel or something.

The only thing this site is here for is to make you:
1) don't give a f*ck what other people think
2) understand that women are replacable
3) set goals in life
4) do what you want to f*cking do

That's it. Most of you realize this and are still on this site reading useless information like indicators of interest, sexual techniques and how to f*cking smile. You're just wasting the best days of your lives you chumps.

Get out in the real world, live and have fun.

Praise me or criticize me, I don't give a f*ck about your opinions
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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ya ur right but ur bringin too much anger man. some people jus stay here cus it makes em feel good to help people who need it
 
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Angry much?
 
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BeginningDJ said:
COme on folks, have you not seen what this site has done to you? I've returned from a 6 month absence and it's still the same. People post and post and read and read. Go read a novel or something.

The only thing this site is here for is to make you:
1) don't give a f*ck what other people think
2) understand that women are replacable
3) set goals in life
4) do what you want to f*cking do

That's it. Most of you realize this and are still on this site reading useless information like indicators of interest, sexual techniques and how to f*cking smile. You're just wasting the best days of your lives you chumps.

Get out in the real world, live and have fun.

Praise me or criticize me, I don't give a f*ck about your opinions
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I think this website is a gold mine for beginners.

But for people who are advanced, it is a crutch.

You have to know when to learn and stay and you have to know when it's time to leave.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seems like the people have spoken. :rockon:
 
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Yeah after awhile you will know 99% of the philosophy of this website and it's just wasting time. It's better never to come back here actually which is what I'll probably do.
 
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The OP. This fvcking guy. He has a great mindset.

Source: Experience.
 
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This site keeps my mind right. I came, left for quite a few years, and eventually came back earlier this year. When I was gone I didn't go blue pill but I was starting to head that way. Continual reading on here, even of the same thing over and over, is kind like the gym for the brain to me.

I also enjoy the genuine comradery on here. With exceptions of course most folks on here who try to help others seem like they genuinely want to do it. The flaming on here is kept to a minimal compared to other forums of other topics I have been on in the past. This is actually the only forum I am a member of anymore, of any kind, and the only one I browse at all on any topic.


To each their own. Anyone who doesn't like this site, you know where the door is. Dont' let the door hit ya where the Good Lord split ya. :moon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What KarmaSutra and logicallefty wrote... and besides, it's not ALL the same; stuff advances with the times and circumstances, and bringing it up here is a positive thing- not negative. It's called a forum and it's not static. Good luck.
 
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Meh, I've been on and off this site for years (since I was 16, 8 years ago...) and I think that this place was an incredible place for me to open up about my emotional pain around women with other guys who were feeling the same. It's been therapy for me and I'm sure it's like that for other guys as well.

Now I'm pretty happy with this area of my life and except for the occasional bad day I don't need this site anymore.

OP I'm happy you feel so confident and hopefully this site will be a part of a journey to increased confidence for many others as well!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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