"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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COme on folks, have you not seen what this site has done to you? I've returned from a 6 month absence and it's still the same. People post and post and read and read. Go read a novel or something.

The only thing this site is here for is to make you:
1) don't give a f*ck what other people think
2) understand that women are replacable
3) set goals in life
4) do what you want to f*cking do

That's it. Most of you realize this and are still on this site reading useless information like indicators of interest, sexual techniques and how to f*cking smile. You're just wasting the best days of your lives you chumps.

Get out in the real world, live and have fun.

Praise me or criticize me, I don't give a f*ck about your opinions
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ya ur right but ur bringin too much anger man. some people jus stay here cus it makes em feel good to help people who need it
 

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Angry much?
 
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BeginningDJ said:
COme on folks, have you not seen what this site has done to you? I've returned from a 6 month absence and it's still the same. People post and post and read and read. Go read a novel or something.

The only thing this site is here for is to make you:
1) don't give a f*ck what other people think
2) understand that women are replacable
3) set goals in life
4) do what you want to f*cking do

That's it. Most of you realize this and are still on this site reading useless information like indicators of interest, sexual techniques and how to f*cking smile. You're just wasting the best days of your lives you chumps.

Get out in the real world, live and have fun.

Praise me or criticize me, I don't give a f*ck about your opinions

I think this website is a gold mine for beginners.

But for people who are advanced, it is a crutch.

You have to know when to learn and stay and you have to know when it's time to leave.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seems like the people have spoken. :rockon:
 

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Yeah after awhile you will know 99% of the philosophy of this website and it's just wasting time. It's better never to come back here actually which is what I'll probably do.
 
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The OP. This fvcking guy. He has a great mindset.

Source: Experience.
 

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This site keeps my mind right. I came, left for quite a few years, and eventually came back earlier this year. When I was gone I didn't go blue pill but I was starting to head that way. Continual reading on here, even of the same thing over and over, is kind like the gym for the brain to me.

I also enjoy the genuine comradery on here. With exceptions of course most folks on here who try to help others seem like they genuinely want to do it. The flaming on here is kept to a minimal compared to other forums of other topics I have been on in the past. This is actually the only forum I am a member of anymore, of any kind, and the only one I browse at all on any topic.


To each their own. Anyone who doesn't like this site, you know where the door is. Dont' let the door hit ya where the Good Lord split ya. :moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What KarmaSutra and logicallefty wrote... and besides, it's not ALL the same; stuff advances with the times and circumstances, and bringing it up here is a positive thing- not negative. It's called a forum and it's not static. Good luck.
 

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Meh, I've been on and off this site for years (since I was 16, 8 years ago...) and I think that this place was an incredible place for me to open up about my emotional pain around women with other guys who were feeling the same. It's been therapy for me and I'm sure it's like that for other guys as well.

Now I'm pretty happy with this area of my life and except for the occasional bad day I don't need this site anymore.

OP I'm happy you feel so confident and hopefully this site will be a part of a journey to increased confidence for many others as well!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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