“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yahoo Personals..anybody notice...?

DoubleA

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Hey,

Anybody notice the difference between Yahoo Personals and the other online dating sites?

Man, here in the D.C. Metro Area there are a TON of BBWs! Plus some snotties(opposite of hotties). Some seem more like attention *****s than wanting to meet a bloke,I looked on my matches and I must say, I found only a few that I thought were very attractive, physically.

What is Yahoo personals like in your town or city? Has anyone here had any success on the site?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TooColdUlrick

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it's the same on all the other sites. see my other post on Match Fuglies.

DC is a tough place, probably the toughest from what i hear. you really gotta have game to bag a quality chick, since there are so many power brokers there. a bud of mine spent the summer there last year. he's got a tight game. but he was shot down over and over and over.
 

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Man, here in the D.C. Metro Area there are a TON of BBWs![/I]
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A ton.....that's like only 6 or 7 of them.

BBW = Big Beached Whale


What is Yahoo personals like in your town or city? Has anyone here had any success on the site?
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SW rural Indiana (where I live): Yahoo is pathetic, many stale profiles. Turnover is maybe 2 or 3 new hotties each month with in 50 miles. Nearly all fuglies, princesses, psychos, gold-diggers, drama queens, but hey that's the local population. Even my brother, whose a master PUA can't get much online here.

Los Angeles (where my brother lives): Yahoo works great for me and my brother. Huge selection of hot women ready to meet after one 5 min. IM and one 5 min. phone call. Turnover is great, 30-40 new hot ones each week within 10 miles.
 

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DC is a tough place, probably the toughest from what i hear. you really gotta have game to bag a quality chick, since there are so many power brokers there.
I feel better now ;-)
 

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Hey Tboner,

Do you find that in a rural area, that women are more reluctant to post a picture? I'm not far from you. Obviously, there are women who do not post a pic because they look bad, but on the opposite end of the spectrum, maybe there are hot chicks with no photo. I say this because I met a 9 before seeing a picture of her, and I wonder if it was a fluke.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tboner

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Bible Belt,

Here, in my search maybe only about 40% with pics. I have found a few hotties buried in all those no pic profiles, but women here seem so reluctant to meet or even give phone numbers. My complaint is that it takes so much more work online, than in person.

Women here are very age sensitive, dating only guys that are 1 to 6 years older. This makes it much harder for me online than in real life because I'm 44 which they see in my profile, but I look 25 to 30. In real life, they don't usually ask my age, until it's too late.
 

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Lie about your age. Women do.

Are you Tbonus from professionalmuscle?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Lie about your age. Women do.

Are you Tbonus from professionalmuscle?
I refuse to lie about my age. I don't want to knock the guys that do, but doing it just because women do isn't a good enough reason for me.

Actually, I've recently saw a women online who I've gone out with and had 'nexted' . She's only a few months older than me and and I've noticed in her profile that she has lowered her age by three years.

I don't know if it's because guys are more strict about wanting younger women or what. I just know that after having a good laugh at her, I had to pause and breath a sigh of relief that I didn't end up dating her because I wasn't sure if she had any other insecurities like her age.
 

Tboner

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Lie about your age. Women do.

Are you Tbonus from professionalmuscle?
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No, I'm not Tbonus.

I always tell the truth and live with the consequences.
 

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I recently left DC for San Diego. I'm still trying to adjust to people actually being nice and generally in good shape. It's a funny feeling being out here, but I am so glad I left.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DoubleA

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Inc

Have you been out politicing yet?

What do you see the big difference between the women here in DC in comparison to the women in San D?

Can anyone else tell their experience on dealing with ladies in different parts of the country?
 

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
I recently left DC for San Diego. ...
Oh!! NO!! Please, not another. There's already too many people here!!:p :p :p
 
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