"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yahoo Personals..anybody notice...?

DoubleA

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Hey,

Anybody notice the difference between Yahoo Personals and the other online dating sites?

Man, here in the D.C. Metro Area there are a TON of BBWs! Plus some snotties(opposite of hotties). Some seem more like attention *****s than wanting to meet a bloke,I looked on my matches and I must say, I found only a few that I thought were very attractive, physically.

What is Yahoo personals like in your town or city? Has anyone here had any success on the site?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TooColdUlrick

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it's the same on all the other sites. see my other post on Match Fuglies.

DC is a tough place, probably the toughest from what i hear. you really gotta have game to bag a quality chick, since there are so many power brokers there. a bud of mine spent the summer there last year. he's got a tight game. but he was shot down over and over and over.
 

Tboner

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Man, here in the D.C. Metro Area there are a TON of BBWs![/I]
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A ton.....that's like only 6 or 7 of them.

BBW = Big Beached Whale


What is Yahoo personals like in your town or city? Has anyone here had any success on the site?
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SW rural Indiana (where I live): Yahoo is pathetic, many stale profiles. Turnover is maybe 2 or 3 new hotties each month with in 50 miles. Nearly all fuglies, princesses, psychos, gold-diggers, drama queens, but hey that's the local population. Even my brother, whose a master PUA can't get much online here.

Los Angeles (where my brother lives): Yahoo works great for me and my brother. Huge selection of hot women ready to meet after one 5 min. IM and one 5 min. phone call. Turnover is great, 30-40 new hot ones each week within 10 miles.
 

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DC is a tough place, probably the toughest from what i hear. you really gotta have game to bag a quality chick, since there are so many power brokers there.
I feel better now ;-)
 

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Hey Tboner,

Do you find that in a rural area, that women are more reluctant to post a picture? I'm not far from you. Obviously, there are women who do not post a pic because they look bad, but on the opposite end of the spectrum, maybe there are hot chicks with no photo. I say this because I met a 9 before seeing a picture of her, and I wonder if it was a fluke.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tboner

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Bible Belt,

Here, in my search maybe only about 40% with pics. I have found a few hotties buried in all those no pic profiles, but women here seem so reluctant to meet or even give phone numbers. My complaint is that it takes so much more work online, than in person.

Women here are very age sensitive, dating only guys that are 1 to 6 years older. This makes it much harder for me online than in real life because I'm 44 which they see in my profile, but I look 25 to 30. In real life, they don't usually ask my age, until it's too late.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Lie about your age. Women do.

Are you Tbonus from professionalmuscle?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Lie about your age. Women do.

Are you Tbonus from professionalmuscle?
I refuse to lie about my age. I don't want to knock the guys that do, but doing it just because women do isn't a good enough reason for me.

Actually, I've recently saw a women online who I've gone out with and had 'nexted' . She's only a few months older than me and and I've noticed in her profile that she has lowered her age by three years.

I don't know if it's because guys are more strict about wanting younger women or what. I just know that after having a good laugh at her, I had to pause and breath a sigh of relief that I didn't end up dating her because I wasn't sure if she had any other insecurities like her age.
 

Tboner

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Lie about your age. Women do.

Are you Tbonus from professionalmuscle?
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No, I'm not Tbonus.

I always tell the truth and live with the consequences.
 

Inc. ©

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I recently left DC for San Diego. I'm still trying to adjust to people actually being nice and generally in good shape. It's a funny feeling being out here, but I am so glad I left.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DoubleA

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Inc

Have you been out politicing yet?

What do you see the big difference between the women here in DC in comparison to the women in San D?

Can anyone else tell their experience on dealing with ladies in different parts of the country?
 

Good_ol_boy

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
I recently left DC for San Diego. ...
Oh!! NO!! Please, not another. There's already too many people here!!:p :p :p
 
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