"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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****y remark for locked room

kramerica

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I ran into an ex-, a teaching assistant, last week. I arrived for a class early to finish an assignment and as she walked in she was surprised to see me there. We only exchanged pleasantries.

She just wrote now to say it was because she'd thought the room was locked and couldn't figure out how I'd gotten in.

Instead of me saying, "the door was open"....any suggestions for a ****y answer?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ER!C L!VE

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FYI, you could tell her anything and she will laugh (if she likes you).

Don't think too much about this stuff, bro.
 

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"i got in w/ a special card that only members have"
"you could be a part of this club, but i'd have to check w/ management- me!"
"might even try to get ya a good deal"


that works, and it's funny. might switch things up a lil, make it work
 

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"Slept with the janitor."

laughter

"No, she's REALLY HOT. Have you seen her? Smells a little like Mop-n-Glo, but nice ass."

:D
 
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