"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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****y is Unattractive

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Hey guys. I just thought I'd share something funny with you guys about C&F and how girls take it.

I went on a stereotypical movie date with this girl I've been interested in for a while. (See previous posts about AFC friend's ex-girlfriend. ;) However, we went early so I had plenty of time to talk with her.

Long story short. The entire time we were making out in my car after the movie, she told me that being "****y" was unnattractive. LoL

Well, obviously something worked.

Any thoughts on women not knowing what they want and DD's "gut-level attraction" theories?

I'm not really asking anything here. Just an open-ended discussion topic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No thoughts whatsoever. Just common knowledge: Pay attention to what women do rather than what they say.
 

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****y vs Arrogant...there's a fine line.
 

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They also say that they wish the "nice guys" are their type. They don't know what they're talking about. They like ****y, but won't admit it to themselves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you going to do the C+F bit, make sure u do it from the very beginning. Tried doing it 2nd month and she was just in shock, I did not get the response I wanted and looked like an idiot.
 

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****iness is definitely a positive attribute...if you execute it properly. That is where the problem lies. A lot of people have the ****y but always are short on the funny. As a result, their IL probably drops a bit (not too much, definitely not as much as confessing your undying love for her in a poem or song). If you ask me, the perfect formula balance of C+F is:

25% ****y
75% Funny

Any more and you may be confused for an ass by some girls. If you are mostly funny, ****iness will only enhance your game. Plus you got to have the goods to back it up too. As in say it loudly, proudly, and without a hint of regret in your voice.
 

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being ****y is unattractive but being Funny while you show her your ****y behavior is attractive.. or if your plainly talking about confidence or ****yness then confidence always is attractive.
 

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The thing about that is you can always sense when somebody is being something they are not it always shows so when a nice guy is trying to act ****y or obnixious it comes off as neing mysogintic and he sounds frustated with women and he's lashing out which is "AFC' or what not .



****y does not equal confidence in fact it means your insecure and want the world to know who you are.A confident guy does not GIVE A FUKK about what women think of them PERIOD!!

Funny? what if a guy 's just not funny ? They are people that serious and no non-sense type of guys ..so they can't get puzzy?
Please DO NOT TAKE THIS **** SERIUOSLY .Use common sense.
 
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