****y & Funny

[The Brufri]

I have read lots of books about seduction techniques, provided by so called authorities on the dating camp, and it seems to me that the whole ****y & Funny mind frame its the biggest asset you should learn and internalize for PU. I would like to share with you two stories that emphazise how important is for you to behave like that:

1) Two years ago while working on some company with some friends I met this girl that was just hired to be our co-worker and help us with some things. She was a 6. I wasnt attract to her at all. As the days gone by, we started to chat a little bit more as she did with the other guys, just some ordinary fluff talk. As we got to know more about each other I felt very confortable talking to her. Note that at the time i didnt know any techniques, I didnt know how to play the game. Suddenly, in the second week, I started playing cool with her, making fun of her on every possibility I had, busting her balls whenever she would show any IOI or talk about other guys. I behaved like that during the next days and soon I noticed she started to change her body language towards me. She would touch me on every possibilty she had, she would keep deep EC with me and laugh at every single thing I said. At the third week she basically asked me out and I said no, that we were just friends and she was misunderstanding our relation, but I said that in a very playful way. She kept following me and inviting me to go out with her untill I did. We stood together for about a month untill I LJBF´s her. End of the story: I still receive her emails and phone calls once in a while and in her own words: "I love your sense of humor". Unfortunely, I lost my natural C&F frame i had and didnt use it with chicks anymore. I became again the nice serious guy untill now..

2) Last week: I was chatting with this chick on the internet I had just met minutes ago. Started asking her some small fluff talk, she wasnt showing any IOI and then out of the blue I threw heavy C&F stuff on her. But really serious stuff that I learned from Senor Fingers posts, about ROLE REVERSAL, ROLE PLAYING, QUALYFING, DISPLAYS OF ****YNESS and NEG-HITS. I took every answer from her and turned to my favour. I played hard to get and was the prize. I kept playing this game and in 30 minutes she was all over me, she gave me her number and we met the next day.

I think the whole C&F vibe can be really powerfull although im very new to all this stuff. I wish I could master this technique and use it with really hot babys but I feel very insecure yet.

I wanna hear about other guys that are used to this method and were sucessfull.

- The Brufri

 

[Hit Dat Sht]

Of coarse it works, you keep throwing them off the pedestal. I used to have girls all over me asking me out on dates and buying me stuff up until my freshman year in high school, and then I suddenly became intimidated by them because I wanted to impress them. SMACK! Took about a year to get out of being a loser and realize they're the same or inferior to be honest, no matter what they look like.

 

[dollashort]

man whats funny is how I keep jumping in and out of being in that c/f mindstate. it seems as though the moment i stop self-affirming c&f i suddenly become serious niceguy again.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

One time I told a knock-knock joke and this girl said

"Ha Ha... your funny. Please let me perform sexual favours on you."

Lol, seriously. Jsut have a fun time and you'll be C&F naturally. One thing to do is watch sitcoms. I've watched a lot of sitcoms when growing up so I've been exposed to differnent kinds of humour. One of my favortie shows to watch is Friends, and if you've watched many sitcoms you can tell that not every joke is original. The thing is though, the jokes are normally very creative and unique for that situation so you laugh nonetheless. Try to capture creativity and uniqueness when telling joeks and your jokes will never get old.

Another key is using jokes for your audience as callback humour. If you watch Friends you probably laugh at things that have been done over and over. If you found it funny the first or second time, then when the producer springs it on you, you'll more than likely laugh again. Think about it: Evry time Joey says "How you doin!" or Janice says "Oh...My...God" or Monica says "I know!" or Chandler says "Could I be..."
If you use something over and over it can either become funnier every time or played out so use them accordingly...

Something to start off would be when talking to a girl about sex or something say that a guy thing to do is scratch your nexk when you're horny, and then the next day the two of you make eye contact, scratch you neck and smile. This also builds rapport because only the two of you get the joke, so you start to share a connection that no-one else gets.

If you want to improve your storytelling ability, go to people and say "Did you see yesterday's episode of Friends?" and retell the story. Then you can start to judge your ability based upon how the other person reacts. Just watch a lot of comedies and don't be afraid to be laughed at and not with. My year has a bunch of clowns and for a while if you told a bad joke everybody would be quiet and then laugh at you, or say in some Japanese accent "Joke Assasin!" After a while, you just laugh at yourself when others don't laugh at your jokes.