"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Since many of you guys are the analytical types and seem to lack a free-spirited lightheartedness that is required to game chicks, I am offering my services, free of charge!

Give me general scenarios whereby you can use C&F to approach a chickadee to start up a conversation and gain initial interest.

A quit wit is a tool and a weapon!
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl: Hi, you're cute! Want to buy me a drink?:rock:
LMS: Are you a virgin?:cool:
Girl: Uhh...no.:confused:
LMS:WH0RE!!:mad: FILTH!:cuss: YOU ARE NOT FEMININE! :box: GET AWAY FROM ME YOU WH0RE!! YOU ARE NOT WORTHY!
Girl:EEEEEKKKKKKK!!!!!!! (As she runs for the door)

I'm sorry! I couldn't resist it!
 
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Haha water girl, that was funny, coming from a woman. :rolleyes:

Girl: Hi, you're cute! Want to buy me a drink?:rock:

LMS:You're cuter, so you should buy me a drink!:D

Simple, very simple.
 
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So no one has any scenarios?

How about a fast food cashier scenario? This is very common.

HB: Will there be anything else? (They always ask - their training specifies it!)

LMS: "Ummm, yeah", "Give me your phone number",and quickly quip, "But don't charge me for it!!: (roll your eyes and smile) - don't try this at the drive-thru window! :rolleyes:
 

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HB: What do you want me to do with it?

LMS: It don't matter, just don't bite it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gimme a c&f line if you see a girl walking towards you.
 
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ChrizZ said:
gimme a c&f line if you see a girl walking towards you.
My first reaction is to trip her to slow her down and give me some time for a response - but pondering that thought I quickly dismissed it due to legal and medical fees, if physical injury to her were to happen!

This open walking approach is a hard one.


LMS: Hey, you're walking the wrong way!!

HB: HUH?? (HB keeps walking with a dumbfounded look, .)

LMS: "Maybe I'm going the wrong way" (I join her in stride) - what's your name?

HB: My name is Muffy.

LMS: Hey Muffy, this is a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't be walking alone. Do you mind if I be your escort for a few yards?

HB: You're creepy. I'm calling the police!!!

LMS starts running - "feet don't fail me now!"!!


HandyAndy said:
"I love you!"

(Not a response to the post above me)
C%F should not be used here! You'll just upset her!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
My first reaction is to trip her to slow her down and give me some time for a response - but pondering that thought I quickly dismissed it due to legal and medical fees, if physical injury to her were to happen!

This open walking approach is a hard one.


LMS: Hey, you're walking the wrong way!!

HB: HUH?? (HB keeps walking with a dumbfounded look, .)

LMS: "Maybe I'm going the wrong way" (I join her in stride) - what's your name?

HB: My name is Muffy.

LMS: Hey Muffy, this is a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't be walking alone. Do you mind if I be your escort for a few yards?
Not bad! I am going to try this out. Have you ever used this in the field LMS? I think it could work.
 
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My Name is Nobody said:
Not bad! I am going to try this out. Have you ever used this in the field LMS? I think it could work.
Never tried it, I don't see many worthy targets and I don't walk much.

In my town, when I see a woman walking on the sidewalk towards me, I walk out of their way - not because I'm scared to approach, but because they are so big and need the space. :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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