"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Since many of you guys are the analytical types and seem to lack a free-spirited lightheartedness that is required to game chicks, I am offering my services, free of charge!

Give me general scenarios whereby you can use C&F to approach a chickadee to start up a conversation and gain initial interest.

A quit wit is a tool and a weapon!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl: Hi, you're cute! Want to buy me a drink?:rock:
LMS: Are you a virgin?:cool:
Girl: Uhh...no.:confused:
LMS:WH0RE!!:mad: FILTH!:cuss: YOU ARE NOT FEMININE! :box: GET AWAY FROM ME YOU WH0RE!! YOU ARE NOT WORTHY!
Girl:EEEEEKKKKKKK!!!!!!! (As she runs for the door)

I'm sorry! I couldn't resist it!
 
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Haha water girl, that was funny, coming from a woman. :rolleyes:

Girl: Hi, you're cute! Want to buy me a drink?:rock:

LMS:You're cuter, so you should buy me a drink!:D

Simple, very simple.
 
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So no one has any scenarios?

How about a fast food cashier scenario? This is very common.

HB: Will there be anything else? (They always ask - their training specifies it!)

LMS: "Ummm, yeah", "Give me your phone number",and quickly quip, "But don't charge me for it!!: (roll your eyes and smile) - don't try this at the drive-thru window! :rolleyes:
 
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HB: What do you want me to do with it?

LMS: It don't matter, just don't bite it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gimme a c&f line if you see a girl walking towards you.
 
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ChrizZ said:
gimme a c&f line if you see a girl walking towards you.
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My first reaction is to trip her to slow her down and give me some time for a response - but pondering that thought I quickly dismissed it due to legal and medical fees, if physical injury to her were to happen!

This open walking approach is a hard one.


LMS: Hey, you're walking the wrong way!!

HB: HUH?? (HB keeps walking with a dumbfounded look, .)

LMS: "Maybe I'm going the wrong way" (I join her in stride) - what's your name?

HB: My name is Muffy.

LMS: Hey Muffy, this is a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't be walking alone. Do you mind if I be your escort for a few yards?

HB: You're creepy. I'm calling the police!!!

LMS starts running - "feet don't fail me now!"!!


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"I love you!"

(Not a response to the post above me)
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C%F should not be used here! You'll just upset her!
 
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My first reaction is to trip her to slow her down and give me some time for a response - but pondering that thought I quickly dismissed it due to legal and medical fees, if physical injury to her were to happen!

This open walking approach is a hard one.


LMS: Hey, you're walking the wrong way!!

HB: HUH?? (HB keeps walking with a dumbfounded look, .)

LMS: "Maybe I'm going the wrong way" (I join her in stride) - what's your name?

HB: My name is Muffy.

LMS: Hey Muffy, this is a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't be walking alone. Do you mind if I be your escort for a few yards?
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Not bad! I am going to try this out. Have you ever used this in the field LMS? I think it could work.
 
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Not bad! I am going to try this out. Have you ever used this in the field LMS? I think it could work.
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Never tried it, I don't see many worthy targets and I don't walk much.

In my town, when I see a woman walking on the sidewalk towards me, I walk out of their way - not because I'm scared to approach, but because they are so big and need the space. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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