"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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****y & Funny Scenarios...for a limited time only...

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Since many of you guys are the analytical types and seem to lack a free-spirited lightheartedness that is required to game chicks, I am offering my services, free of charge!

Give me general scenarios whereby you can use C&F to approach a chickadee to start up a conversation and gain initial interest.

A quit wit is a tool and a weapon!
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl: Hi, you're cute! Want to buy me a drink?:rock:
LMS: Are you a virgin?:cool:
Girl: Uhh...no.:confused:
LMS:WH0RE!!:mad: FILTH!:cuss: YOU ARE NOT FEMININE! :box: GET AWAY FROM ME YOU WH0RE!! YOU ARE NOT WORTHY!
Girl:EEEEEKKKKKKK!!!!!!! (As she runs for the door)

I'm sorry! I couldn't resist it!
 
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Haha water girl, that was funny, coming from a woman. :rolleyes:

Girl: Hi, you're cute! Want to buy me a drink?:rock:

LMS:You're cuter, so you should buy me a drink!:D

Simple, very simple.
 
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So no one has any scenarios?

How about a fast food cashier scenario? This is very common.

HB: Will there be anything else? (They always ask - their training specifies it!)

LMS: "Ummm, yeah", "Give me your phone number",and quickly quip, "But don't charge me for it!!: (roll your eyes and smile) - don't try this at the drive-thru window! :rolleyes:
 

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HB: What do you want me to do with it?

LMS: It don't matter, just don't bite it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gimme a c&f line if you see a girl walking towards you.
 
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ChrizZ said:
gimme a c&f line if you see a girl walking towards you.
My first reaction is to trip her to slow her down and give me some time for a response - but pondering that thought I quickly dismissed it due to legal and medical fees, if physical injury to her were to happen!

This open walking approach is a hard one.


LMS: Hey, you're walking the wrong way!!

HB: HUH?? (HB keeps walking with a dumbfounded look, .)

LMS: "Maybe I'm going the wrong way" (I join her in stride) - what's your name?

HB: My name is Muffy.

LMS: Hey Muffy, this is a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't be walking alone. Do you mind if I be your escort for a few yards?

HB: You're creepy. I'm calling the police!!!

LMS starts running - "feet don't fail me now!"!!


HandyAndy said:
"I love you!"

(Not a response to the post above me)
C%F should not be used here! You'll just upset her!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
My first reaction is to trip her to slow her down and give me some time for a response - but pondering that thought I quickly dismissed it due to legal and medical fees, if physical injury to her were to happen!

This open walking approach is a hard one.


LMS: Hey, you're walking the wrong way!!

HB: HUH?? (HB keeps walking with a dumbfounded look, .)

LMS: "Maybe I'm going the wrong way" (I join her in stride) - what's your name?

HB: My name is Muffy.

LMS: Hey Muffy, this is a bad neighborhood, you shouldn't be walking alone. Do you mind if I be your escort for a few yards?
Not bad! I am going to try this out. Have you ever used this in the field LMS? I think it could work.
 
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My Name is Nobody said:
Not bad! I am going to try this out. Have you ever used this in the field LMS? I think it could work.
Never tried it, I don't see many worthy targets and I don't walk much.

In my town, when I see a woman walking on the sidewalk towards me, I walk out of their way - not because I'm scared to approach, but because they are so big and need the space. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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