"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi,

Can you guys think of a ****y-funny reply to this:

"Sorry, I'm not interested, I don't give out my number to strangers..."

I use a David D. line "Are you single?" followed up by, "I know someone that I think would like you, and if you are single, you should consider having a cup of coffee with him." - at that point if she says, "i don't talk to strangers" - any good follow-ups to keep the conversation going...it can abruptly end at that point, that's why...

thanks,

kairos
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mercenary

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Originally posted by kairos
Hi,

at that point if she says, "i don't talk to strangers"
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Ah, the lessons we learn in Kindergarten...
I suppose if you offered a stick of gum she wouldn't accept it would she?
 
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J-Man

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to be honest with you, if i were the girl, i would have said the same thing. that opener is canned as hell, and furthermore, attempts to hide (whether it actually attempts to hide it or not is debateable) your interest in her. unless someone can persuade me otherwise, you wont ever see me use that line.
 
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Originally posted by kairos
"Sorry, I'm not interested, I don't give out my number to strangers..."
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"What information would you need to know about me to make me less strange (give a slight smile)!

The approach you describe is a little lame - don't listen to D Ahgelo - listen to me!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It doesn't matter what your reply is, that line is a cop-out. If the girl is interested, she'll keep talking to you.

Yeah, and that pick up line is pretty dumb.
 
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i'd say this -

"oh is that it?"
"well my name's ScrewIt"
"im not a stranger anymore....gimme gimme gimme!!!"
 
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Originally posted by kairos
Hi,


"Sorry, I'm not interested, I don't give out my number to strangers..."

- "Neither do I, thats why I asked for your #"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Microphone Fiend

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"Okay, but i got some candy in my car... you like candy don't you? I think your mommy said to come with me to my car"

"Stranger! How dare you call me that, you don't even know me!"

"Okay you don't give it your number, can you just tell me where you live?"

"It's cool, I don't even give out my real name, I go by my porn name"

Instead of C&F for a laugh, I'd say build up more rapport cuz mosr #'s pulled in this minimal interaction will result in a flake
 
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"Are you single?" followed up by, "I know someone that I think would like you, and if you are single, you should consider having a cup of coffee with him."

This as an opener is CRAP. The only way this might work is if its a girl that you've known a really long time, and doesn't suspect your interest in her. Never as an opener.

Then, like others pointed out. The, "I don't give out my number" is usually a way to get out of the interaction, and definate sign of low interest.

But, if you really want something to say in these situations : "That's half the fun of meeting someone... they start off as strangers till you get to know them."
 
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this line was posted on mASF and everyone agreed that this was garbage...NEVER USE THIS AGAIN!
 
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