"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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****y & Funny Answering Machine Message

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I remember when I first got into C&F routines and the whole bit, and reading up on them, I remember reading David DeAngelo's, "perfect answering machine message." At the time I thought he meant something ****y and funny you could leave on your voicemail box, so women that would call would hear and get some automatic C&F waiting for them, at least till I myself could stuff them full of it.

Turns out, he was really meaning it was a message to leave on someone else's machine, in the instance they don't answer. While his advice helped with this situation, it got me to thinking...

Is there a ****y and funny answering machine message that I could leave on my voicemail box that would sound.....interesting and do the trick? Ideas anyone?:rock:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_in_making

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damn, what about just "Please leave a message and I'll get back to you"?
you don't have to be in DeAngelo mode 24/7
 

DJ_in_making

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what if its a business call or something?

Try one that you make them look needy for calling you and actually waiting till the machine picked up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nighthawk

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I used to have a prank message that sounded as if it was me answering the phone, 'Hi, who's that? Oh Hi, how are you doing? etc. Ha got ya, leave a message.'

Ok, I stole the idea off Sam Malone.
 

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One things for sure, in the pickup world, C and F is probably the most misunderstood technique.
 
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