"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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****y and funny with good freind?

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How do you start ****y n funny up with a good freind, who is attractice, u no very well and usually have alot of fun with?.


Not a specific situation, just in general, some examples would be good.

Thnks alot
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First you have to initiate a conversation and then lead the conversation to any funny thing you want and match it with a complete ****y attitude. Its that simple. Once you have started it, be it, forever!
 

Donald Kaufman

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If I understand correctly, this is someone you have known for a while but have been talking to seriously and now you want to move it away from the friendzone with C&F?

If so, I haven't wound up in this situation a lot but I tried this a few months ago and liked the results.

Try saying something C&F, completely straight faced and stare her directly in the eyes. She will probably look at you dumbfounded. Stare back at her more intently. (think Vincent D'Onofrio in the last 10 minutes of Criminal Intent) **** your head to one side and act like you are trying to understand how odd she is. She will either burst out laughing or ask a question to try to understand you. Say something more extreme until she cracks. This totally changes your dynamic and you can just continue in any fashion you desire. She will see you in a new light.

Requires confidence and being in the right mood.
 

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if you're trying to attempt relationship from friendship. the only way to win is if you completely change and it will be her making the moves. NEVER YOU.
 

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
if you're trying to attempt relationship from friendship. the only way to win is if you completely change and it will be her making the moves. NEVER YOU.
this guy is right, partially. You too could make the moves.
i used to straight faced and never c&f around this girl who put me in the friends zone. after a semester of not talking i was different with my c&f spunk and it just felt good. she knew & i knew i had changed also and she kinoed me more often.

so the point of the story is crack em up and they'll see you in a new light. honestly i dont think its hard to get out of a friends zone with a girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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