"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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****y and funny with good freind?

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How do you start ****y n funny up with a good freind, who is attractice, u no very well and usually have alot of fun with?.


Not a specific situation, just in general, some examples would be good.

Thnks alot
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First you have to initiate a conversation and then lead the conversation to any funny thing you want and match it with a complete ****y attitude. Its that simple. Once you have started it, be it, forever!
 

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If I understand correctly, this is someone you have known for a while but have been talking to seriously and now you want to move it away from the friendzone with C&F?

If so, I haven't wound up in this situation a lot but I tried this a few months ago and liked the results.

Try saying something C&F, completely straight faced and stare her directly in the eyes. She will probably look at you dumbfounded. Stare back at her more intently. (think Vincent D'Onofrio in the last 10 minutes of Criminal Intent) **** your head to one side and act like you are trying to understand how odd she is. She will either burst out laughing or ask a question to try to understand you. Say something more extreme until she cracks. This totally changes your dynamic and you can just continue in any fashion you desire. She will see you in a new light.

Requires confidence and being in the right mood.
 

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if you're trying to attempt relationship from friendship. the only way to win is if you completely change and it will be her making the moves. NEVER YOU.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
if you're trying to attempt relationship from friendship. the only way to win is if you completely change and it will be her making the moves. NEVER YOU.
this guy is right, partially. You too could make the moves.
i used to straight faced and never c&f around this girl who put me in the friends zone. after a semester of not talking i was different with my c&f spunk and it just felt good. she knew & i knew i had changed also and she kinoed me more often.

so the point of the story is crack em up and they'll see you in a new light. honestly i dont think its hard to get out of a friends zone with a girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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