"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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****y and Funny Confusion, etc

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I was just grillin on some girls this weekend.. getting positive responses. I will save the details for my journal.

So one girl would play along I would use some ****y and funny stuff on her. For example:

Me: Jeez youre so hostile! (laughing)
Her: Only to cover up my love for you (laughing)

In the passed she would threaten to sever my head off with a tooth brush and weird **** like that. Joking around obviously. I accused her of using hostility to cover up her true feelings for me.

So Im wondering.. she brought up what I accused her of a way different day. Does this mean anything? Was she strictly playing along for fun?

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Also- When a chick laughs and says eww stop! After a C&F comment such as accusing her as trying to seduce me what does she really mean by it since she was laughing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Means she's digging it. Don't use to much c&f otherwise you'll blow yourself out and show your insecurities.
 
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