"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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****y and Funny Confusion, etc

Embrace

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I was just grillin on some girls this weekend.. getting positive responses. I will save the details for my journal.

So one girl would play along I would use some ****y and funny stuff on her. For example:

Me: Jeez youre so hostile! (laughing)
Her: Only to cover up my love for you (laughing)

In the passed she would threaten to sever my head off with a tooth brush and weird **** like that. Joking around obviously. I accused her of using hostility to cover up her true feelings for me.

So Im wondering.. she brought up what I accused her of a way different day. Does this mean anything? Was she strictly playing along for fun?

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Also- When a chick laughs and says eww stop! After a C&F comment such as accusing her as trying to seduce me what does she really mean by it since she was laughing?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Means she's digging it. Don't use to much c&f otherwise you'll blow yourself out and show your insecurities.
 
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