"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Xmas lbs went straight to my... Chest?

Bodhi

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So i took almost a month off working out and exercise over Xmas cause of traveling and what not. I work out around 5 times a week, and for the past year or two i haven't gained a pound or two over 160 and when i do it goes back to 160 in the next couple weeks. Now i seem to be hanging around 165-166 since the end of my break

The thing here is it by the end of my break, i gained 5-6 lbs and it's not like i started to get a belly. In fact my abs were more defined than before, my chest was noticeably larger, and same for my arms.

Anyone know whats up with this? Usually I'd just start getting an extra layer to my belly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I thought I read somewhere once that you can't go more than about 3 weeks (even with good nutrition) without working out before you start to lose muscle mass.

I doubt it is extra muscle.

Check how your first workout goes compared to the last one...

If you manage to lift more compared to last time, then it is probably muscle.

But if you can't lift any more, it's not.
 

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Well i definitely wasn't able to lift more once i got back to the gym, but i didn't have to go down in weight either, So if it wasn't muscle mass I'm trying to figure it out, did i just get more fat or something in those areas? this whole thing seems odd
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Not really that odd if you consider you were training 5 days a week for a year or two. The break probably let your body fully repair and recover and you more than likely did put on a bit more mass. Strength gains wouldn't happen, but a full repair of your tissues would lend itself to the size increase.
 

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The break probably let your body fully repair and recover
First thing I thought. Try spreading out your 5 day routine over two weeks instead of one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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