"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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XFalcon: Approach Journal Competition - Jayer

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After looking at Jayer's approach journal I decided that it is high time to get the show on the road. I am challenging Jayer - first to 100 approaches wins... and I am allowing him the 28 approaches head start. I think this will further motivate me to finish my approach journal. I honestly think I can win this.

If this is accepted I will begin to post my approaches in this thread. Today is the day I will begin counting approaches and posting my crash and burns, most likely.

One thing I want to mention before I start:
- If I disobey the 3 second rule by being a procastinating piece of sh*t, I will abandon any approach. I will also post about it to tell of my embarassment and hope this will discourage me from being a patsy the next time!

Also, I realize this is my first post... so call me a noob - but I am up to any challenge. Its on
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I did not go out with the intention to do any approaches today, but I figured I might as well get started if the opportunity presents itself - though it didn't.

I had to go to the mall to pick up some pants I had altered - so I figured I would walk around for about 10 minutes to see if I could find any 'approaching' material. I did see one girl, who was on her phone, that looked decent. I waited for her to get off and as soon as she did she turned the corner. Other then that all I saw were older people (50+) or women with children. I guess Monday isn't the best day for being at the mall, only people that are there are women, children, and the unemployed!
 

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Alright guys I have an update already:

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but...

Tonight after going to the grocery store and eating dinner, I came back to my apartment. After talking to my roomate for a little while, I remembered I had lent a frying pan a couple weeks ago to a girl that lives in the same apartment complex. I don't really know her too well - we're pretty much acquintances. Well I popped into her room and asked her if she could return the item. As it turns out we end up talking for about 20 minutes. As I begin to excuse myself our conversation unfolded somewhat like this-

X: So what are you doing two weekends from now?
HB: Well I have a test early in the morning and then after that I am going to come back home, what about you?
X: I have somethings to get done, but we should hang out
HB: Yeah sure, when I come back I will see if you are at your place or vice versa
X: Or you could just give me your number and I will call you
HB: Ok

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but I did get a number from a girl I barely know. What do you guys think?

APP:
#s: 1
 

ChrizZ

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XFalcon said:
Alright guys I have an update already:

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but...

Tonight after going to the grocery store and eating dinner, I came back to my apartment. After talking to my roomate for a little while, I remembered I had lent a frying pan a couple weeks ago to a girl that lives in the same apartment complex. I don't really know her too well - we're pretty much acquintances. Well I popped into her room and asked her if she could return the item. As it turns out we end up talking for about 20 minutes. As I begin to excuse myself our conversation unfolded somewhat like this-

X: So what are you doing two weekends from now?
HB: Well I have a test early in the morning and then after that I am going to come back home, what about you?
X: I have somethings to get done, but we should hang out
HB: Yeah sure, when I come back I will see if you are at your place or vice versa
X: Or you could just give me your number and I will call you
HB: Ok

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but I did get a number from a girl I barely know. What do you guys think?

APP:
#s: 1
well, you didn't run any game on her. Right now I'm sure she only sees you as a friend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jayer said:
Thats a warm approach dude.
Fair enough, note I did not add this is an approach, but I did get a # regardless.

Update for today:

I was walking behind a girl after class and then of course I hesitated past the 3 second rule and in essence failed to say anything. I even had a good line, what a chump huh.

Other then that I was in the library all day. There are always some HB walking around, but I can't see this as a good venue to do approaches.

APP: 0
#: 1
 

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hehe good luck if you do continue it though.
 
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