"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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XFalcon: Approach Journal Competition - Jayer

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After looking at Jayer's approach journal I decided that it is high time to get the show on the road. I am challenging Jayer - first to 100 approaches wins... and I am allowing him the 28 approaches head start. I think this will further motivate me to finish my approach journal. I honestly think I can win this.

If this is accepted I will begin to post my approaches in this thread. Today is the day I will begin counting approaches and posting my crash and burns, most likely.

One thing I want to mention before I start:
- If I disobey the 3 second rule by being a procastinating piece of sh*t, I will abandon any approach. I will also post about it to tell of my embarassment and hope this will discourage me from being a patsy the next time!

Also, I realize this is my first post... so call me a noob - but I am up to any challenge. Its on
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I did not go out with the intention to do any approaches today, but I figured I might as well get started if the opportunity presents itself - though it didn't.

I had to go to the mall to pick up some pants I had altered - so I figured I would walk around for about 10 minutes to see if I could find any 'approaching' material. I did see one girl, who was on her phone, that looked decent. I waited for her to get off and as soon as she did she turned the corner. Other then that all I saw were older people (50+) or women with children. I guess Monday isn't the best day for being at the mall, only people that are there are women, children, and the unemployed!
 

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Alright guys I have an update already:

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but...

Tonight after going to the grocery store and eating dinner, I came back to my apartment. After talking to my roomate for a little while, I remembered I had lent a frying pan a couple weeks ago to a girl that lives in the same apartment complex. I don't really know her too well - we're pretty much acquintances. Well I popped into her room and asked her if she could return the item. As it turns out we end up talking for about 20 minutes. As I begin to excuse myself our conversation unfolded somewhat like this-

X: So what are you doing two weekends from now?
HB: Well I have a test early in the morning and then after that I am going to come back home, what about you?
X: I have somethings to get done, but we should hang out
HB: Yeah sure, when I come back I will see if you are at your place or vice versa
X: Or you could just give me your number and I will call you
HB: Ok

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but I did get a number from a girl I barely know. What do you guys think?

APP:
#s: 1
 

ChrizZ

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XFalcon said:
Alright guys I have an update already:

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but...

Tonight after going to the grocery store and eating dinner, I came back to my apartment. After talking to my roomate for a little while, I remembered I had lent a frying pan a couple weeks ago to a girl that lives in the same apartment complex. I don't really know her too well - we're pretty much acquintances. Well I popped into her room and asked her if she could return the item. As it turns out we end up talking for about 20 minutes. As I begin to excuse myself our conversation unfolded somewhat like this-

X: So what are you doing two weekends from now?
HB: Well I have a test early in the morning and then after that I am going to come back home, what about you?
X: I have somethings to get done, but we should hang out
HB: Yeah sure, when I come back I will see if you are at your place or vice versa
X: Or you could just give me your number and I will call you
HB: Ok

Not sure if this counts as an approach, but I did get a number from a girl I barely know. What do you guys think?

APP:
#s: 1
well, you didn't run any game on her. Right now I'm sure she only sees you as a friend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jayer said:
Thats a warm approach dude.
Fair enough, note I did not add this is an approach, but I did get a # regardless.

Update for today:

I was walking behind a girl after class and then of course I hesitated past the 3 second rule and in essence failed to say anything. I even had a good line, what a chump huh.

Other then that I was in the library all day. There are always some HB walking around, but I can't see this as a good venue to do approaches.

APP: 0
#: 1
 

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hehe good luck if you do continue it though.
 
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