"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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X-Mas

Starwolf

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It's that time of year Again! you know what is comming!

Tom Leykis will tell you to disappear, Don't be around when the holidays are near! And Redpillers will advice you to walk away from these consumerism traps

Still What do you guys do when one of the following is hinting at that new phone, necklace, pair of shoes, etc etc ? :rock:

A. Wife
B. LTR
C. FWB
D. Date

To spend or not to spend! :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova

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I'm spending Christmas alone this year, and I'm totally embracing it. It's just me and my kid, and that's all I want this year. Women are either already involved with someone or busy with family. They'll be single after Christmas when their supplicating BFs buy them too much expensive crap over the holidays.
 

Cejay

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I will also be alone, no family around at all.

I took Dec 26 off to make a 4 day weekend.

I'm going to go hiking in the desert, go to gym (when its open) study for an Certification Exam and eat well.

CJ.
 

Fireballs

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I just picked, ripened, cut up and froze about 100 mangoes for myself and my gf from my mango tree for the year. Mango smoothies everyday...I will be letting her know that this is her Xmas present.

I was also contemplating the 'bag of skittles' present with the note attached: (can't remember where this is from?)

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Don't eat the green ones!
You're a great screw
 

Kailex

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If I'm single, the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas usually becomes "me" time when I stop actively seeking out. It seems to coincide with the time that the P-Stock tends to plummet, followed by the high season of New Year's to Valentine's Day.

I'd rather spend it alone anyway, rather than playing the game of "Whose family do we need to go visit this year?".

I couldn't tell you what I'd do when hinting at a gift, because it's never happened to me. And if it did, it depends on the situation. Any woman I've been with has been perfectly fine with whatever I had given them. Last Christmas gift I gave a woman was a wine glass with the initial of her first name engraved into it with a butterfly resting on the initial.

If she hated it, I could never tell. Cost me no more than $20.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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