"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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X-Mas

Starwolf

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It's that time of year Again! you know what is comming!

Tom Leykis will tell you to disappear, Don't be around when the holidays are near! And Redpillers will advice you to walk away from these consumerism traps

Still What do you guys do when one of the following is hinting at that new phone, necklace, pair of shoes, etc etc ? :rock:

A. Wife
B. LTR
C. FWB
D. Date

To spend or not to spend! :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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I'm spending Christmas alone this year, and I'm totally embracing it. It's just me and my kid, and that's all I want this year. Women are either already involved with someone or busy with family. They'll be single after Christmas when their supplicating BFs buy them too much expensive crap over the holidays.
 

Cejay

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I will also be alone, no family around at all.

I took Dec 26 off to make a 4 day weekend.

I'm going to go hiking in the desert, go to gym (when its open) study for an Certification Exam and eat well.

CJ.
 

Fireballs

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I just picked, ripened, cut up and froze about 100 mangoes for myself and my gf from my mango tree for the year. Mango smoothies everyday...I will be letting her know that this is her Xmas present.

I was also contemplating the 'bag of skittles' present with the note attached: (can't remember where this is from?)

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Don't eat the green ones!
You're a great screw
 

Kailex

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If I'm single, the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas usually becomes "me" time when I stop actively seeking out. It seems to coincide with the time that the P-Stock tends to plummet, followed by the high season of New Year's to Valentine's Day.

I'd rather spend it alone anyway, rather than playing the game of "Whose family do we need to go visit this year?".

I couldn't tell you what I'd do when hinting at a gift, because it's never happened to me. And if it did, it depends on the situation. Any woman I've been with has been perfectly fine with whatever I had given them. Last Christmas gift I gave a woman was a wine glass with the initial of her first name engraved into it with a butterfly resting on the initial.

If she hated it, I could never tell. Cost me no more than $20.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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