"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starwolf

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It's that time of year Again! you know what is comming!

Tom Leykis will tell you to disappear, Don't be around when the holidays are near! And Redpillers will advice you to walk away from these consumerism traps

Still What do you guys do when one of the following is hinting at that new phone, necklace, pair of shoes, etc etc ? :rock:

A. Wife
B. LTR
C. FWB
D. Date

To spend or not to spend! :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desdinova

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I'm spending Christmas alone this year, and I'm totally embracing it. It's just me and my kid, and that's all I want this year. Women are either already involved with someone or busy with family. They'll be single after Christmas when their supplicating BFs buy them too much expensive crap over the holidays.
 

Cejay

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I will also be alone, no family around at all.

I took Dec 26 off to make a 4 day weekend.

I'm going to go hiking in the desert, go to gym (when its open) study for an Certification Exam and eat well.

CJ.
 

Fireballs

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I just picked, ripened, cut up and froze about 100 mangoes for myself and my gf from my mango tree for the year. Mango smoothies everyday...I will be letting her know that this is her Xmas present.

I was also contemplating the 'bag of skittles' present with the note attached: (can't remember where this is from?)

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Don't eat the green ones!
You're a great screw
 

Kailex

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If I'm single, the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas usually becomes "me" time when I stop actively seeking out. It seems to coincide with the time that the P-Stock tends to plummet, followed by the high season of New Year's to Valentine's Day.

I'd rather spend it alone anyway, rather than playing the game of "Whose family do we need to go visit this year?".

I couldn't tell you what I'd do when hinting at a gift, because it's never happened to me. And if it did, it depends on the situation. Any woman I've been with has been perfectly fine with whatever I had given them. Last Christmas gift I gave a woman was a wine glass with the initial of her first name engraved into it with a butterfly resting on the initial.

If she hated it, I could never tell. Cost me no more than $20.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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